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Finding Wild Hope in the Landscape of Your Life

Large rocks in Colorado Springs' Garden of the Gods park
Where I live in Colorado there’s an extraordinary park with gigantic natural red rocks called Garden of the Gods.

Some areas are not open to the public because they need repair, and a sign posted there reads, “Area Under Reclamation.” In other words, “Don’t walk here; we’re fixing this section.”

Just as the land needs ecological restoration, the landscape of our hearts needs spiritual restoration—and often emotional and physical changes as well.

That’s because “the landscape of our lives” may need repair. Life can get messy and chaotic. We make poor choices. Or, others hurt us.

Maybe the landscape of your life appears perfectly manicured on the outside, but on the inside you feel like you’re barely surviving.

Maybe it’s time for a change.

The good news is that both landscapes and lives be transformed. Restoration is possible, but often we lose sight of how it happens.

We lose sight of hope.

Focused solely on our circumstances our view becomes myopic; we see only part of the picture.

For instance, if you took a photograph of a desert landscape, all you’d see would be what the camera can capture. It’s your perspective from one viewpoint: some sand, cactus and a bit of tumbleweed blowing in the distance.

But what you couldn’t see beyond the edges of your snapshot was an oasis just ahead, or the desert’s end.

There’s more to the landscape, and more to your life.

Beyond how you feel at this moment, beyond your discouragement or desperation, there is more.

There is hope ahead.

You can have hope in hard times—in all times—when you know more fully the One in whom we put our hope, Jesus Christ, our Wild Hope.

He is “wild” in the sense that He is passionate and powerful—adoring and authoritative—yet often unpredictable.

Isaiah 55:8 reminds us, “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the LORD.” While His ways are often surprising, He acts out of ultimate love.

Hope that is wild is extravagant hope; it is beyond your wildest dreams.

Extravagant hope is when you have only pennies left to your name and God provides the resources you need to pay your bills the very next day.

Extravagant hope is when the doctors tell you that you have less than 1% chance of ever getting pregnant and you finally have a healthy, baby girl.

Hope allows you to overcome fear and discover a life you never could have thought possible.

Hope is not crossing your fingers and making a wish, it’s folding in your hands and saying a prayer. It’s expecting God to answer, even when you have no idea when it will come.

Even when you haven’t a clue as to how things will ever change, you can have hope for the future and for this very moment because:

• God is sovereign. He is in control and you can trust Him even when you do not understand.


• God is loving. He accepts you unconditionally, despite your circumstances or poor choices. He’s chosen you; He’s just waiting for you to choose Him back.


• God is wise. He knows what He’s doing and His wisdom and ways are far beyond our comprehension.


• God keeps His promises. He is trustworthy to do what He says He will do, and that strengthens your faith.


• God is faithful. He is totally reliable and utterly dependable.

God will provide. He is good. He is loving and faithful. He is with you.

Always.

 

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When You’re Feeling Lonely: What to Do

Lonely woman

Years ago, I packed up my little red Honda and drove 1,000 miles across America’s heartland to start a new job in a new city.

I found a house to share with roommates, unpacked, and embarked on life in an unfamiliar place.

I loved the incredible view of Colorado’s Rocky Mountains and the friendly people. Yet, I ached for the comfort of people who had known me for years—or decades.

I missed my heart friends.

When I moved west, I left behind family, deeply-rooted friendships, and a church family I loved.

Granted, the move was my choice and I was happy about it. I was following God’s call. But, at the same time, my emotions were a swirling mixture of excitement, anticipation, and isolation.

My heart felt as barren as the miles of endless prairie on the Eastern Plains.

For the first time in my life, I was incredibly lonely.

Of course, you don’t have to move across the country by yourself to feel lonely.

You can be walking on a bustling city street or sitting at a crowded party and still feel disconnected from other people.

Many singles feel the sting of loneliness even more during the season between Thanksgiving and New Year’s because they long for a significant other or they can’t get home for the holidays. Or, sadly, they are disconnected from their family.

“Longing” is a word that comes to mind when I think about the feeling of loneliness.

You want something you don’t have; you yearn for connection.

Sometimes it’s the connection of a specific person you desire; at other times you just want someone to talk to.

Either way, you feel miserable.

Here’s the thing: We were created for companionship and crafted for relationships.

The desire within us to connect is healthy and good. We need connection and community.

In fact, my pastor once said that if God can separate you from authentic community then you’re easy prey for the enemy because you’re isolated and alone.

Resist the temptation to think that having a boyfriend or girlfriend will fill the holes in your heart, or that marriage is the answer to feeling alone.

Instead, set your course on the true and lasting satisfaction of putting God first—and letting God bring you His best as you seek to serve Him.

When I’m feeling lonely, here are some things I try to remember:

I may feel alone, but I’m not. Jesus said, “I am with you always…” (Matthew 28:20). He promised that He would never leave me. It’s good to know the One who loves me most is always there.

When I remember that I am promised God’s presence I find comfort and renewed hope.

The God who made the universe, who knows all things, who has all power and authority wants to be with me. That is mind-blowing good news. What a gift!

Ask God for more of His presence in your life. As your first connection, He is your best connection.

I need to be intentional about building community. Of course, solitude can be replenishing and we all need time to ourselves, but I strive to find balance between being alone and spending time with other people.

No matter how busy or bored we are, we all need live human contact—not just virtual community and online friends. I ask myself, what is one thing, even a small thing, I can do to connect with positive, life-giving people?

I need to find and fulfill my purpose. When I feel lonely, I try to remember the bigger picture in that God has a purpose for each of us. He didn’t create you and me for no reason.

So I try to get alone with God and ask Him what He’s calling me to do in this season of my life.

What has He uniquely crafted me to do and to be so I can make a difference—and be a light? There’ much to be done—people to serve and a world to be transformed. Even if it’s only my corner of the world. 

At times, feeling lonely can be a catalyst—the nudge I need to move forward in a new direction.

How about you? What will you do next? Even one small step will lead you away from loneliness and into hopefulness. 

Here’s to renewed connections and greater joy.

Finding Peace

Why is peace so elusive?

Perhaps it’s because we forget to replenish our source of peace in the busyness of daily living. Regardless of our circumstances, we can live a life of peace when we find our contentment in Christ and draw near to Him.

Just as the moon absorbs light from the sun, we can bask in the glow of God’s Son and absorb his truth. Then we can become people who reflect His joy and light to the world around us.

You can have much less anxiety and much more peace when you trust God and transfer the outcome of the decision to Him.

Instead of thinking “it’s all up to me” and “I have to make this happen” you can surrender your fear and doubt to the Lord believing He will take care of you—and provide a course correction if needed.

Peace is possible as we see the source of peace through prayer.

Key Bible Verses

“A heart at peace gives life to the body…” ~ Proverbs 14:30


“Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.” ~ James 3:18


“You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you.” ~ Isaiah 26:3


“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” ~ John 14:27

Powerful Prayer

Lord, I don’t want to be anxious. I want to be a person of peace. Help me to keep centered on You and not my problems. Calm me, and help me to find my security and contentment in You, the One who loves me most. Still my inner heart so I can be peaceful in my thought and actions. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

Additional Resources by Jackie M. Johnson

Power Prayers for Women
Prayers with Purpose for Women
Praying with Power When Life Gets Tough
When Love Ends and the Ice Cream Carton Is Empty